I would like to apologize to my readers for not blogging for a long time now. However as many of you already know, I have recently lost the most important and influential man in my life. On September 1st, 2009 my father, Jeffrey Stewart Walker, lost the battle to cancer. He was relieved from his life support due to an infection and failure of his organs.
Jeffrey was the strongest definition of a man that comes to mind. To try to explain all his accomplishments and attributes in just one blog would be a shame to who he really was, so I will do my best to shed a light on his life.
When I think about my father, I think about the person I aspire to be. I think about the wonderful attributes that make him who he is. My father was a proud and dignified man. He respected his surroundings and welcomed newcomers. My father maked you feel warm and comfortable. He inspired while also breathing in all others’ insight. My father was a magnificent leader and a tremendous friend. He encompassed all that is love and all that is life.
These words actually sum it up best, words I spoke to him as he left us:
Dad, you are the single most important person in my life. You have showed me what being a man entails. You have led me through the dark and allowed me to understand what it means to be successful. You always seem to know when I am making the right or wrong decision, and yet you usually let me make the decision on my own. You have instilled trust in me over the years that I will never take for granite. You may not always be with me physically but I will continue to earn that trust.
My most important goal in life is to become a strong and courageous man. A man that can walk the earth softly and inspire others the way that you did. I want to be a man that can look back on life and regret nothing- the way that you did. We might not have always been on the same page, but if you had done it any differently we would be at a loss.
I am always going to strive to be like you, whether its right or wrong. Its my human nature. I will love you forever. I will cherish are time forever. I will never forget you. In fact I will keep you in my heart everyday that I walk this earth. I only ask that you continue to guide me, that I can take your wonderful characteristics and attempt to make them my own. If I am ever even half the man that you are, I will consider it a success…
And I’ll do my best not to get married before I am 30.






